Your Wedding Music
The Director of Music
The Director of Music in this parish is Mr Roger Gay. He is available to discuss the music and hymns for your wedding. You will find some suggestions below. Please make an appointment to meet him through our parish office. (Contact details in the right-hand sidebar.)
When you meet him, you will also need to book the choir if you are having one. (We strongly recommend that you do book the choir, since experience shows most wedding congregations need support for their singing.)
You will need to choose music to come into the service, music to leave by, and hymns. Either two or three hymns are normal at weddings. You can also request particular items to be sung during the signing of the registers, if you book the choir, or accept the Director of Music’s suggestions from their repertoire.
Any choices you make at this stage can be changed right up until the printing of the service sheets, but it is helpful to have this part of your wedding planned.
Keep a note of your choices:
- Entrance Music
- 1st hymn
- 2nd hymn
- (3rd hymn)
- (Other requests)
- Exit Music
If you wish to provide your own organist, or a soloist, please discuss this with the Director of Music when you meet. Please note that the usual organist’s fee is still payable as part of the wedding fees.
Music and hymns
All the following are simply suggestions to get you started. You do not have to choose from this list, but can choose from a wide range of hymns, songs and music. If there is a particular piece you are considering but are unsure whether it would be allowed, please discuss it with the Director of Music and the clergy to see whether it is suitable or appropriate for a wedding service. We are willing to consider any request, provided it would not be jarring or out of place.
The following pieces of music are particularly appropriate for the entrance procession
- Wagner — Bridal Chorus (Here comes the bride)
- Clarke — Trumpet Voluntary
- Charpentier — Prelude to Te Deum
- Handel — Arrival of the Queen of Sheba
- Stanley — Trumpet Tune
The following pieces of music are particularly appropriate for the exit procession
- Mendelssohn — Wedding March
- Widor — Toccata
- Clarke — Trumpet Voluntary
Traditional hymns from our hymnbook
- And did those feet ( Jerusalem)
- Be thou my vision
- Come down, O love divine
- Dear Lord and Father of mankind
- Gracious Spirit, Holy Ghost
- Lead us, heavenly Father, lead us
- Lord of all hopefulness
- Love divine, all loves excelling
- Now thank we all our God
- O perfect love
- Praise my soul, the king of heaven
- Praise to the Lord, the almighty
- The King of love my shepherd is
- The Lord’s my shepherd
Contemporary hymns and songs from our hymnbook
Be still, for the presence of the Lord- Bind us together
- Give me joy in my heart
- Jesus, stand among us
- Let there be love shared among us
- Lord, the light of your love is shining (Shine, Jesus, shine)
- Make me a channel of your peace
- Morning has broken