To quote Benjamin Franklin, there are only two certainties in life: death and taxation..... and clearly it is crucial that we prepare for both, since both are unavoidable.
There are numerous schemes and arrangements in place which try to help us reduce our tax liabilities whilst still paying what is legally due. We might not always get round to it, but we appreciate the benefit gained by saving money.
When it comes to death, things are very different. As a topic, it is the taboo of our age, largely unmentionable in company. Ironically there are countless video games that are centred on gratuitous violence and killings, but when it comes to real life we try to find ways to avoid discussing these issues. Death is something we usually try to sweep under the carpet. (Maybe you feel a bit uncomfortable reading this, but keep going!)
Of course, any death is a shock, whether it is sudden or violent, whether it follows a prolonged illness or whether it comes quietly as the culmination of a “ripe old age”. The growth of the hospice movement has enabled those with terminal illnesses to prepare for death, but for many people there is no opportunity for such preparation. We know that death comes to us all, so a healthy appreciation of that fact is essential if we are to be able to cope when a family member or friend dies. We also need to be able to cope with the thought of our own death. This isn’t about being morbid – it’s about celebrating life and understanding that there is more to come.
So what should we do? Two things are important – firstly that we should be aware of our own mortality and of the assurances that God offers to those who trust Him, and secondly that we should build good relationships with family and friends.That way we can accept the certainty of death whilst celebrating life with all its joys and happiness.